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Keep 'em Separated
Posted on 04/13/07 in Relationships by MattA friend of mine recently mentioned that she'd started seeing someone new and he apparently could set his own schedule at work. In other words, he was free to see her anytime he pleased. When you start seeing someone new you usually want to spend lots of time around them; they're a new squeaky toy that you want to hug and squish until its eyes bug out and it stops squeaking. My advice? Take it easy. Give each other space - especially when you're just starting out. No one wants to be smothered right off the bat and you'll find their company much more enjoyable if you take it in small doses at first. You only get one honeymoon phase, you might as well make it last as long as you can.
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Doh!
there's wisdom in these words. I agree with you. I think it's also just a healthiness factor. If you have your own life, full of your own activities, then you are healthy. If you sit around day after day, staring at the phone or the computer screen... well, you just aren't in the right state of mind to get into a relationship. Common sense, in a sense.
Additionally, it's healthy for people in a relationship to have different interests outside of the relationship. It's nice that you both love to go to the movies or on hikes, but it's also good to go seperate ways so she can have lunch with her girlfriends while you golf with your buddies. This way you can have talks with other people about how great he or she is and remind yourself of just how lucky you are... or aren't. =) It's HEALTHY!
Your friend does sound unemployed though.
~Abscence makes the heart grow fonder~
To sweep them off their feet
Some seek a wolf
Protective and fleet
I seek a bard
To woo me with words
To use them like swords
To find my hearts chords
To put my heart together
With words like forever
Would that not be clever