october 23rd

I am 37, and I have an amazing 26 year old wanting to date me...I just have trouble with the age difference. She tells me, "Age is just a number!" Is it really? She has not experienced the things I have.....But my gosh she is hott....

believe it or not its a common reaction within 2 years of divorce. Most haven t healed.

Unfortunately, alot of us have to go through the "school of hard knocks" before we finally start making the right choices. Let her learn the hard way. You told her how you feel and that's about all you can do, cause she's going to do what she wants with or without your blessing. And you never know, maybe this time things will work out. Stranger things have happened.

the hard part about this is that at 25 (which is how old i am) we sort of feel like weve seen it all and know what were doing, and more often then not mom is right when we swore we knew she wasnt. Sit her down and make sure she knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that this isnt about her sexuality...im sure you would be feeling the same if she were jumping into things with a man. She may not be thinking things through because she feels a sense of freedom from the obligations of a marriage she was never too thrilled about staying in to begin with. Explain to her how you feel and share something private about your own life with her. Maybe something she doesnt even know but she may end up relating better to you if she knows that you arent perfect either. Good luck and Gods love.