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Sat 06/28/08 04:12 PM
Topic: Dating or a Relationship
I wouldn't mind being in a relationship but I HATE dating.

Kinda limits my options.laugh
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Sat 06/28/08 04:10 PM
Topic: How far should you take it?
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hiker you still owe me that money backgrumble
come get it babe!tongue
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Sat 06/28/08 04:08 PM
Topic: How far should you take it?
I am not at liberty to discuss it at this time.
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Sat 06/28/08 03:57 PM
Topic: Dating or a Relationship
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I think that most people are interested in a relationship, but only on their explicit terms. Uncompromising, my way or the highway type relationships, each for their own personal reasons based on their experiences.
We can't all be as flexible as you, darling.flowerforyou
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Sat 06/28/08 03:43 PM
Topic: angelindarkness
two become one...how appropriate!
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Sat 06/28/08 03:37 PM
Topic: Calling the cops
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No, but I think that dancing banana should be incarcerated
I think this is the first time I have agreed with you.
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Sat 06/28/08 07:23 AM
Topic: Calling the cops
not everyone is as they appear.

Be vewwy, vewwy careful...
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Sat 06/28/08 07:21 AM
Topic: WHY AM I MISUNDERSTOOD
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Fran, just keep in mind what you are dealing with here. The pool consists of people that range from highly intelligent to barely literate. So if people are misunderstanding, perhaps they are not capable of grasping complex thoughts. It's not their fault.

I need to keep reminding myself of that.



I love you Nora flowers


I love you too. You seem to be able to understand where I am coming from even when it's a different place than yours (which it usually is.)



Oh ya .. I 'get ya' .. but to be honest it did take a while. I think we are both on the same intellectual level, but becuz our perspectives are so opposite frustratedthat was the glitch.

Now? You DA woman flowers
Yet, you, unlike others, chose not to take my words as an attack on YOU, but merely as a reflection of my own style of behavior. You are a smart woman, Fade.
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Sat 06/28/08 07:20 AM
Topic: Calling the cops
the ones you have to watch out for are the ones who try very hard to appear sweet in the forums but then flame you on e-mail.

Can you say "psycho"?laughlaugh
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Sat 06/28/08 07:18 AM
Topic: Calling the cops
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yeah boy we'll jump right on that one!
grumbleIm starting to consider itgrumble
did you have a bad expirience you want to share?smokin
laughYeah its happening in this thread LOLlaugh
yes I really think you should call them like we talked about.smokin
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Sat 06/28/08 07:17 AM
Topic: WHY AM I MISUNDERSTOOD
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Fran, just keep in mind what you are dealing with here. The pool consists of people that range from highly intelligent to barely literate. So if people are misunderstanding, perhaps they are not capable of grasping complex thoughts. It's not their fault.

I need to keep reminding myself of that.



I love you Nora flowers


I love you too. You seem to be able to understand where I am coming from even when it's a different place than yours (which it usually is.)
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Sat 06/28/08 07:16 AM
Topic: 2 JSH memorable threads :)
Sadly all the intelligent and thought-provoking threads get forgotten.
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Sat 06/28/08 07:09 AM
Topic: Happy pill
I believe he means "prescribed".
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Sat 06/28/08 07:05 AM
Topic: Calling the cops
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spockHave you ever thought about calling the cops on anybody on here ?think


The Spelling Cops, yeah....

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Do we have them? Can we talk to admin about getting a "Report Grammatical Crime" button?
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Sat 06/28/08 07:04 AM
Topic: WHY AM I MISUNDERSTOOD
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Things we write are not always received by others in the way they are intended. frustrated

It is not always due to poor social skills or expressive ability. More likely, it is because of the lack of nonverbal cues available in this medium, or the receiver's own processing deficits or biases. Not everyone is going to like us or what we have to say all of the time.

Do the best you can, let go of the rest. thumbsup


~angelfire
It's not about being liked..it's about being slammed by an entire thread because they chose to ascribe meaning to something; meaning that was never your original intent. Then they won't let you tell them they are interpreting it wrong. It's like they think they know what is going on inside your head better than you do. It's just annoying.
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Sat 06/28/08 06:59 AM
Topic: WHY AM I MISUNDERSTOOD
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wow....so mods criticize the site?
yes..they remain human beings with opinions even after attaining modhood.
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Sat 06/28/08 06:58 AM
Topic: Calling the cops
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spockHave you ever thought about calling the cops on anybody on here ?think
no, but I would love to see you do it.laugh
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Sat 06/28/08 06:56 AM
Topic: WHY AM I MISUNDERSTOOD
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I speak English well. I have good grammatical skills. I can string words to make complete sentences/thoughts.


You should know by now that this sort of thing doesn't play well here....!!

flowerforyouflowerforyouflowerforyou


yes, I think they are considering posting a new forum rule about that....laugh
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Sat 06/28/08 06:55 AM
Topic: WHY AM I MISUNDERSTOOD
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In my opinion there are many factors that cause this. Some people do not take the time to ask what you mean if they do not understand. They just prejudge you based on their own assumptions. You can hurt people's feelings that way. It's a lack of communication. Some people do not have very good communication skills. Mind you, I'm not singling anyone out. Just an observation.


opinions and interpretations is what causes this, I know.


Yes, Fran, that is it.

I have the same problem. Most people who know me understand that I have no problem saying what I mean. I am very blunt and outspoken. So it irritates me to no end when I say something and people decide that it means something else. No matter how much I tell them that wasn't what I meant, they want to ascribe their own meaning to it. It's maddening. So now they are all worked up and angry at you for something you never said, because in their tiny pea brains, they believe that you must have meant whatever it is they are mad about. And they are so into being pissed off, they dont' believe you when you tell them what you actually meant. I would think I would know what I mean better than anyone, but no, they insist they know what I meant, even when it wasn't what I said.

It's enough to make a person just give up.
Edited by hikerchick on Sat 06/28/08 07:00 AM
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Sat 06/28/08 06:47 AM
Topic: Plane Ticket
my goodness.