p.s. -- don't do this around the guys...there just going to make fun of you..but you'll soon be the one laughing when you have 10 girls that can call and...

..what you say and what you do depends on the context of the situation - club/starbucks/library/mall/walking down the street..have something prepared to say for each situation..something simple...a question perhaps...a comment perhaps...if the girl shows interest, you'll pick up on it right away...and the question/comment will soon turn into a conversation...approach many, many girls...you'll realize soon enough that statistics can work for you..that is to say for example a 90% failure rate...which means a 10% success rate, so that means one out of every 10 girls you meet will show interest...that was my rate when I did that sort of thing at around your age.....for you though..you may want to be realistic..1%..which still aint bad....prove me wrong bro...


Roco

..first date jitters...been there man..it's worse when she's much better looking....so just go out on a few dates too with other women that are less attractive...too build up your confidence/experience..

Roco

...cause the guys a p**sy...or if he doesn't have a face shot like me..he's ugly, and doesn't want to get rejected by you...

Roco

..same thoughts exactly...knowing she will be gone - forever.

Roco

that's wonderful, I hope things work out for the both of you..

Roco

he's gonna keep pushing...if you don't give it up the next few dates with him...he's gonna take off...you may try to keep him around as a friend..but.it'll come at a cost....he's going to criticize the guys you go out with and get especially jelous when you start talking about what other guys are doing to you...

Roco

You mesmerize me…you pull me in..like an undercurrent…I am at a different place…with you…all that is familiar is unfamiliar…except for you….all that is important is unimportant….except for you…..you pull me in…like an undercurrent…and I am mesmerized…by you.

Roco

p.s. -- this is for you sweetie...I love you...god, take care of my angel...

I for one aint going to resist any urges to tell you what I think...you sound like a bitter young man that hasn't gotten laid in a while...and probably won't for some time either with comments such as "I don't like small talk mutch and I just wanna meet someone who wants to cut the stuped ****" I'm no authority on women but they usually enjoy small talk...advice - speak to your target audience...comment's such as that is going to get you a man...not a women...

Roco

match.com works..I can attest to that..someone close to me got married through it...they have a child now. She had to meet a lot of frogs through to get the prince....the dude is a real cool guy..I'm happy for her..

Roco

p.s. -- I imagine a free site such as this can be just as effective...but perhaps you may have to kiss a lot more frogs..baby monkeys, llamas..and other furry creatures I see all the time on the discussion boards...

your comment makes sense...obviously there are different levels of this disorder..I think I was/am right in the middle...I don't know...I have never got an official diagnosis, that is to say, I've never seen a doctor..but my ex girlfriend..(years ago)..she kept on saying that I was bi-polar and manic depressive...we did argue a lot...also, she really did suffer from this disease/disorder...I didn't know if she said I had it just to make her feel better..or if I really did have it...perhaps both were the case...needless to say, after we broke up..I went on to graduate school, graduated, feel fine now...never taken any medication or had any professional consultations...perhaps it was just the circumstances during the time I was dating her that made it appear I had it...

Roco

love is pea....

Phenylethylamine

Some of you love junkies know what I am talking about..


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Roco

Another alternative, love is a marketing tool used by countries- for love of country, corporations - heart share, guys - 3 words..

to answer your question...no, I have never had that experience...but this is coming from a guy that has only once said it..."don't want to ruin a good thing."..what good thing are you going to ruin...chance at a relationship? current relationship..i.e. bf/gf already? friendship? If you have only been with him for a little while and he is not your current bf, then I wouldn't recommend saying it. If you're already with each other..than go ahead, its not going to matter...so to speak. If it is a friendship that is at risk, then I it depends on your level of risk...there is a possibility that the guy might take off once he hears that from you if he considers you a friend.

Roco

...great to read that you took the good nurse's advice and went to the hospital...appendicitis is no joke..brother almost died from it...easy with red bull/monster/xenergy...or whatever caffeine drink you kids drink nowadays...


Roco

takes time...lots of lots of time...perhaps a year...maybe longer...perhaps it will heal faster if you become friends with him...I've had many female friends that did that and it seems to have worked for them. ...but you may have to be persistent...since guys just want to cut ties and take off..

Roco

I have to agree with DDejon..women choose men...perhaps initially, men may make the first approach..but its the women that makes the most important and final approach..

Roco

perhaps you should be seeing a sex therapist instead of a psychotherapist...okay man, here's what you do...instead of spending all that money on the psychotherapist and spending ineffective time on craigslist...go to a strip club...find an independent contractor that doesn't seem like she's getting a lot of business...have her take you to the back room for a few private lap dances..tip her well...keep going back...expect to pay quite a bit..but eventually, there's a good chance that you'll befriend her...and quite possibly this may lead into something more....you got to dress/look nice though.....try it, let us know how you do...you got nothing to lose, except perhaps your virginity...just kidding..

they've gone off to war..

This is what you do exactly..call him in 2 days.., leave a message like this..it has to be in your own words though....I called ..( or texed ) you a couple of times before and haven’t received any call back..well,.. this is going to be my last call to you..(name)

Roco

p.s. -- if its a girl..she'll text you shortly..if its a guy...he may call you back in about a month...don't say it if you don't mean it though..

Question: Where did you get this laurAnne??