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Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: GIRLS
p.s. -- don't do this around the guys...there just going to make fun of you..but you'll soon be the one laughing when you have 10 girls that can call and...
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Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: GIRLS
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So ive always had a hard time talkin to girls i never know what to say to them. like ill be with my boys and there will be an atractive girl i want to talk to but i just walk away cause i never know what to say its not that i dont have the balls to talkl to them. any advice would be great! thanx all ..what you say and what you do depends on the context of the situation - club/starbucks/library/mall/walking down the street..have something prepared to say for each situation..something simple...a question perhaps...a comment perhaps...if the girl shows interest, you'll pick up on it right away...and the question/comment will soon turn into a conversation...approach many, many girls...you'll realize soon enough that statistics can work for you..that is to say for example a 90% failure rate...which means a 10% success rate, so that means one out of every 10 girls you meet will show interest...that was my rate when I did that sort of thing at around your age.....for you though..you may want to be realistic..1%..which still aint bad....prove me wrong bro... Roco |
Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: I tried it, I failed.... kind of
..first date jitters...been there man..it's worse when she's much better looking....so just go out on a few dates too with other women that are less attractive...too build up your confidence/experience..
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Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: why do....?
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i had a guy i talked to for seriously a YEAR.. and everytime i mentioned meeting up he would "dissapear" for a month or so.. and always come back.. he told me he was scared that i wouldn't like him blah blha.. my guess.. he had a gf on the side or something.. or just really likes getting attention to help him with his low selfesteem ...cause the guys a p**sy...or if he doesn't have a face shot like me..he's ugly, and doesn't want to get rejected by you... Roco |
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Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: Ending a serious relationship
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nothing when it's over, it's over ..same thoughts exactly...knowing she will be gone - forever. Roco |
Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: It Only Took 11 Years...
that's wonderful, I hope things work out for the both of you..
Roco |
Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: question for the guys
he's gonna keep pushing...if you don't give it up the next few dates with him...he's gonna take off...you may try to keep him around as a friend..but.it'll come at a cost....he's going to criticize the guys you go out with and get especially jelous when you start talking about what other guys are doing to you...
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Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: Love Notes
You mesmerize me…you pull me in..like an undercurrent…I am at a different place…with you…all that is familiar is unfamiliar…except for you….all that is important is unimportant….except for you…..you pull me in…like an undercurrent…and I am mesmerized…by you.
Roco p.s. -- this is for you sweetie...I love you...god, take care of my angel... |
Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: How do I find a honist relationship
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Hi, I am 25 years old. I was born and raised on Maui. I own a small landscape business and am going to culinary school. I am not the most outgoing guy, but I will be if I can find somthing that we have in common. I don't like small talk mutch and I just wanna meet someone who wants to cut the stuped **** and just get down to learning about eachother. What am I doing wrong. Does anyone but me find this rather unpleasantly manipulative and confrontational? You're saying "I'm sort of shy" which is cool but then we find that to impress you one must "cut the stuped [sic] sh!t and get down to learning about each other". And then "what am I doing wrong" (no question mark, but I assume it's a question) This is the type of post that really brings out my inner troll. And yet I will resist the urge to tell you what I think you're "doing wrong", and say "welcome!" (See how easy being manipulative and creepy is for a true master of the art? You have much to learn, grasshopper!) yours in Chaos, Scarlett I for one aint going to resist any urges to tell you what I think...you sound like a bitter young man that hasn't gotten laid in a while...and probably won't for some time either with comments such as "I don't like small talk mutch and I just wanna meet someone who wants to cut the stuped ****" I'm no authority on women but they usually enjoy small talk...advice - speak to your target audience...comment's such as that is going to get you a man...not a women... Roco |
Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: dating sites
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Do they really work or are they just a scam? match.com works..I can attest to that..someone close to me got married through it...they have a child now. She had to meet a lot of frogs through to get the prince....the dude is a real cool guy..I'm happy for her.. Roco p.s. -- I imagine a free site such as this can be just as effective...but perhaps you may have to kiss a lot more frogs..baby monkeys, llamas..and other furry creatures I see all the time on the discussion boards... |
Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: Anyone Bipolar?
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BP here. Tough to live with. Im too exausting to live with, but i hate the stigma.......it is unfair. There are higher and lower tiers of it and some are worse than others. Higher and lower functioning people. Sorry for those who have had to deal with and coudnt the higher tiers of people. I know it was hard. Then there are peole like me who are semi functioning. Right in the middle. Very hard to kno whats wrong, have to make yourself behave and take your meds. It's ok though. I have come to terms with it, but it is still very hard and I avoid telling the wrong people. You start to be able to tell who you think can handle it and who can't. Still sucks when you get to know someone you like them and get along well andthen they screw you cuz you're BP. Two edged sword. your comment makes sense...obviously there are different levels of this disorder..I think I was/am right in the middle...I don't know...I have never got an official diagnosis, that is to say, I've never seen a doctor..but my ex girlfriend..(years ago)..she kept on saying that I was bi-polar and manic depressive...we did argue a lot...also, she really did suffer from this disease/disorder...I didn't know if she said I had it just to make her feel better..or if I really did have it...perhaps both were the case...needless to say, after we broke up..I went on to graduate school, graduated, feel fine now...never taken any medication or had any professional consultations...perhaps it was just the circumstances during the time I was dating her that made it appear I had it... Roco |
Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: What is love?
love is pea....
Phenylethylamine Some of you love junkies know what I am talking about.. http://www.tahlequahdailypress.com/features/local_story_046100955.html?keyword=secondarystory Roco Another alternative, love is a marketing tool used by countries- for love of country, corporations - heart share, guys - 3 words.. |
Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: When to say those three
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dreaded words? I feel it but I don't want to ruin a good thing. Has anyone else had this experience? to answer your question...no, I have never had that experience...but this is coming from a guy that has only once said it..."don't want to ruin a good thing."..what good thing are you going to ruin...chance at a relationship? current relationship..i.e. bf/gf already? friendship? If you have only been with him for a little while and he is not your current bf, then I wouldn't recommend saying it. If you're already with each other..than go ahead, its not going to matter...so to speak. If it is a friendship that is at risk, then I it depends on your level of risk...there is a possibility that the guy might take off once he hears that from you if he considers you a friend. Roco |
Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: Should I go to the hospital?
...great to read that you took the good nurse's advice and went to the hospital...appendicitis is no joke..brother almost died from it...easy with red bull/monster/xenergy...or whatever caffeine drink you kids drink nowadays...
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Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: Serious people only please..
takes time...lots of lots of time...perhaps a year...maybe longer...perhaps it will heal faster if you become friends with him...I've had many female friends that did that and it seems to have worked for them. ...but you may have to be persistent...since guys just want to cut ties and take off..
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Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: DEMI/ASHTON SUCCESS STORIES PT 1... - part 25
I have to agree with DDejon..women choose men...perhaps initially, men may make the first approach..but its the women that makes the most important and final approach..
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Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
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Thanks for your reply. It's frustrating! I've used Craig's List personals frequently to the point that my account(s) have been suspended because I post too much. I don't have any close female friends and I go crazy. I don't know how to make a personal bond or connection with a twenty or thirty-something woman. There have been many days of late where I will just break down and cry. perhaps you should be seeing a sex therapist instead of a psychotherapist...okay man, here's what you do...instead of spending all that money on the psychotherapist and spending ineffective time on craigslist...go to a strip club...find an independent contractor that doesn't seem like she's getting a lot of business...have her take you to the back room for a few private lap dances..tip her well...keep going back...expect to pay quite a bit..but eventually, there's a good chance that you'll befriend her...and quite possibly this may lead into something more....you got to dress/look nice though.....try it, let us know how you do...you got nothing to lose, except perhaps your virginity...just kidding.. |
Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: please help me
they've gone off to war..
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Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: Help me out please!!!
This is what you do exactly..call him in 2 days.., leave a message like this..it has to be in your own words though....I called ..( or texed ) you a couple of times before and haven’t received any call back..well,.. this is going to be my last call to you..(name)
Roco p.s. -- if its a girl..she'll text you shortly..if its a guy...he may call you back in about a month...don't say it if you don't mean it though.. |
Roco![]() Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 38 |
Topic: ADVISE FOR MEN AND WOMEN MUST READ
Question: Where did you get this laurAnne??
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