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Alterego1961
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Sun 06/22/08 06:30 AM
Good morning. I hope your day is great. I'm getting ready for work tho... sadlaughlaughlaugh
Alterego1961
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Sun 06/22/08 06:29 AM
The pics or the girlfriend would be gone. If they want to keep the pics more than they want to keep me then they have no place in my life. nowaygrumblegrumble
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Sat 06/21/08 11:40 PM
At least a year, probably two. smile
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Sat 06/21/08 09:59 PM
Would you in a truck?

Would you (BLEEP) laughlaughlaugh
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Sat 06/21/08 09:58 PM
Would you in a park?

Would you in the dark? bigsmile
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Sat 06/21/08 09:54 PM
I helped her be her best, and in the process suffered her worst. grumblegrumblegrumble
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Sat 06/21/08 12:17 PM
Nectar of the gods... bigsmiledrinkerdrinkerdrinker
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Thu 06/19/08 10:12 PM
About the only thing that makes me really happy right now is making other people happy. I've got lots of people left to go. smileflowerforyou
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Thu 06/19/08 10:02 PM
I started writing this post in my mind a couple of days ago, but wasn't sure about posting it. Now I don't think there will ever be a good time to post it, so now's as good a time as any...


Have you ever done something on the sly with the explicit intention of not hurting or upsetting someone, yet eventually you realize it may have happened anyway. How do you apologize for that? Can you ever regain the trust that was lost? How do you live with yourself if they can’t forgive you? Let’s find out, shall we? (You already know who you are if I’m right…)

In sight of this forum, my newfound family, I most humbly apologize if I have upset you in any way. I never intended to deceive you. I knew eventually you would figure it out, so I purposely left a few clues behind for you so you wouldn't wonder. I knew we would probably cross paths here on the forums occasionally as well, but I tried to treat your posts as if they were by any of the great people on here. Since I think you know by now my personality is pretty atypical of most men, and you know a large portion of my past as well, I shouldn't have been that hard for you to spot anyway... I was trying to give you all the time and space you asked for, even if I stood little chance of winning your heart, but I wanted to play here and make some new friends too. This place is truly awesome with some of the most amazing people to be found anywhere. Since I have been forced to distance myself from my entire family, and have lost my wife and stepdaughters partly because of them and her family, I find I have a huge empty spot in my heart they once occupied. I’m just hoping to have some fun here and maybe fill in a little bit of that empty spot for now. I hope you can understand, and eventually forgive....
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Thu 06/19/08 09:26 PM
I went to the website to check it out a few months ago. I've been doing those things most of my life. I shoulda wrote the book first. winkdrinkerdrinker
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Thu 06/19/08 09:18 PM
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Did you adopt by any chance? I hope so...

A great resource for all guys is the National Fathers Rights site at http://www.dadsamerica.org/resource.htm Hope that helps! flowerforyou


I have been looking ALL OVER for that! THANKS!!!


Glad it helped someone, Spaceman. flowerforyouHang in there Alterego ~ our thoughts are with you & the girls!


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Thu 06/19/08 09:02 PM
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you should not give up on them....if it were my kids I would fight with everything in me...goodluck!! bud and don't give up!!noway

I think since they are step children, he won't have a choice unless there were adoption papers involved! This is what makes this so sad. cry


You got it. I have loved them as my own since they were very small (3,2,1), but I have no legal claim, so no basis to file anything!brokenheart
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Thu 06/19/08 09:00 PM
Thanks all. I have only been able to help by helping my ex get her life back in order... The best lawyer in town is the one she works for, and the "good 'ol boys club" in this town is nearly impossible to break... I want to fight, but am powerless... I feel so frustrated!
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Thu 06/19/08 08:49 PM
My ex just told me she is thinking about giving full custody of my stepdaughters to her sister because she can't fight her and fight her cancer at the same time! This is the same sister who has convinced my girls that their mother has lied about having cancer in the first place, lied about having a hysterectomy (I was there for the surgery), lied about needing chemotherapy... The same sister who convinced my girls to lie about things to their counselors and CPS... The same sister who in the past has stayed in a motel for 4 days simply to keer her estranged husband from seeing his children for Father's Day... The same sister who thinks because she works for a lawyer she can get away with violating federal privacy laws concerning medical records... My girls are living a life I wouldn't wish on anyone, yet they don't know it because they have been conditioned (I hesitate to call it brainwashing) to think it is not just normal, but it is good to be that way. My girls are going to live a life of ugliness and I am powerless to do anything about it because I have been forbidden to do anything by my ex, and her sister would sick all the lawyers on me pro bono. You can't fight that. I'll never see my girls again, and if I do they will be mere shadows of the beautiful little girls I remember..... sadsadsadexplodeexplodeexplode
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Wed 06/18/08 10:45 PM
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Wowsa - I spooked her off already laugh- sorry guys


D'oh nowaygrumblegrumblegrumble
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Wed 06/18/08 10:36 PM
I think it is both. My entire family has a "deficiency" shall we say in the way they treat other people. If it is purely learned then I should have turned out the same. I somehow turned out to be a decent person despite the environment I was raised in. I care about others greatly, in fact more than myself most of the time. Maybe I overcompensated for the ugliness that I was raised in, but it definitely wasn't learned... Where did that come from??? I like to think it came from God. Where did my family's ugliness come from? Partly hidden mental illness I suspect, but that doesn't explain it all...
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Wed 06/18/08 10:25 PM
What's to be afraid of? Let the world know you love your woman. They can be as jealous as they want. flowerforyouflowerforyouflowerforyou
Edited by Alterego1961 on Wed 06/18/08 10:26 PM
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Wed 06/18/08 10:23 PM
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ive already got youtube playing, astronomy metallicas version. i think its too hard for people to actually engage in a intelligent conversation anymore. much easier to talk about boobs. me, though, i could give a damn about boobs. call me nuts, i think a brain can lead to more fun than those.


The brain is the largest sexual organ in the body. Most people don't realize that! smile
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Wed 06/18/08 10:18 PM
It must be hump day. Everyone's dead or somethin' grumblegrumblegrumble
Alterego1961
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Wed 06/18/08 09:59 PM
If it did they wouldn't need to do commercials. tonguetonguetongue