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Fri 06/27/08 05:23 PM
In my opinion there are many factors that cause this. Some people do not take the time to ask what you mean if they do not understand. They just prejudge you based on their own assumptions. You can hurt people's feelings that way. It's a lack of communication. Some people do not have very good communication skills. Mind you, I'm not singling anyone out. Just an observation.
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Fri 06/27/08 02:18 PM
Oh it's hilarious! You should rent it. flowerforyou
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Fri 06/27/08 02:12 PM
If two people agree to the arrangement then I see no problem with it. However if they do not then they should have the right to choose.

Have you ever seen the movie Coming To America with Eddie Murphy? laugh
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Fri 06/27/08 01:31 PM
your hidden talents?

I can cross one eye and leave the other straight.

Put my feet up over my head.

I can speed read.
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Fri 06/27/08 01:32 AM
You know what? All I was doing was taking interest in the conversation. I saw something on television about some people who live on the street. It's really a sad thing. I just wanted to hear some stories because I was genuinely interested in what you all had to say. But I guess I shouldn't have. Sorry if I offending anyone. I'll be leaving now. Good night.
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Fri 06/27/08 01:16 AM
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Wow! You should write a book! Tell us some stories please! noway



That was totally uncalled for!angry


What? No I'm serious.. I want to know what it's really like. I wasn't being rude. You totally misunderstood my intention.
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Fri 06/27/08 01:10 AM
Wow! You should write a book! Tell us some stories please! noway
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Fri 06/27/08 12:52 AM
Some women would think that's not a real job. Chances are they are gold diggers. It depends how good you are. How good are you? laughjk
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Fri 06/27/08 12:36 AM
Take it easy.. Breathe..... Now, what happened?
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Thu 06/26/08 10:57 PM
roflNothing like a man in uniform waking up to smelling salts and to another man in uniform! Omg! That's priceless..
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Thu 06/26/08 10:27 PM
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"Games" by my definition would be:

Not being honest.
Having hidden intentions.
Manipulation: Mind fuc*ing you to the point where you are confused. Turning your thought process upside down. Confusing you to the point where you may lose your own identity. Everything is your fault and you take on all of the accountability because they twist things to make it seem so. They try to corrupt you to the point where you have no confidence or dignity. Then they try to control you by knowing where you are at all times, with whom, and what you are doing. Etc......

It happened to me.. Therefore I do not want any games. So now you have a small glimpse into what "games" are.


thats not games, thats borderline psychotic. I've been there to. I can't imagine many people doing that in relastionships. Atleast i thought to that extent it was rather a rare thing.


Okay so it's psychotic games. But to me it's still games. I also agree with your definition of games. Just happens to be a bit more mild so to speak. lol


hehe yea, i dont think someone who would do that would really care if they read it in your profile or not. Those type of people are incapable of love, because love is understanding. And they simply don't care enough to even try and understand. Check out the character traits of a socialpath. You'll get a kick out of it.


laughlaughlaughI already have!
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Thu 06/26/08 09:58 PM
I pose this question. Why are some people so frightened of gays?? It's not contagious! And we do not come on to everything that walks. laughThat's like say a straight woman will come on to every man she sees. Just not true.
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Thu 06/26/08 09:52 PM
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I have already converted... rofl


I believe you too...


Well you should. Because it's true. I'm not man hating dyke though. tongue
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Thu 06/26/08 09:33 PM
I have already converted... rofl
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Thu 06/26/08 09:29 PM
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"Games" by my definition would be:

Not being honest.
Having hidden intentions.
Manipulation: Mind fuc*ing you to the point where you are confused. Turning your thought process upside down. Confusing you to the point where you may lose your own identity. Everything is your fault and you take on all of the accountability because they twist things to make it seem so. They try to corrupt you to the point where you have no confidence or dignity. Then they try to control you by knowing where you are at all times, with whom, and what you are doing. Etc......

It happened to me.. Therefore I do not want any games. So now you have a small glimpse into what "games" are.


thats not games, thats borderline psychotic. I've been there to. I can't imagine many people doing that in relastionships. Atleast i thought to that extent it was rather a rare thing.


Okay so it's psychotic games. But to me it's still games. I also agree with your definition of games. Just happens to be a bit more mild so to speak. lol
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Thu 06/26/08 09:07 PM
"Games" by my definition would be:

Not being honest.
Having hidden intentions.
Manipulation: Mind fuc*ing you to the point where you are confused. Turning your thought process upside down. Confusing you to the point where you may lose your own identity. Everything is your fault and you take on all of the accountability because they twist things to make it seem so. They try to corrupt you to the point where you have no confidence or dignity. Then they try to control you by knowing where you are at all times, with whom, and what you are doing. Etc......

It happened to me.. Therefore I do not want any games. So now you have a small glimpse into what "games" are.
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Thu 06/26/08 08:39 PM
Once a cheater, always a cheater. I would forgive them for my sake, but the relationship would be over on all levels.
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Thu 06/26/08 08:10 PM
How can one enjoy the best things life has to offer if you cannot handle the worst? Life is full of heartaches. But it's also full of rich beauty. What I suggest is dealing with this head on. Do not push it on the back burner thinking it will go away. But do not let it define you either. It's not your fault. You will never forget this. But this will add to the strength you already have. Shutting the world out isn't going to make things any easier or better. Try to find a happy medium. flowers
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Thu 06/26/08 06:24 PM
Take care of yourself. *hugs*
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Thu 06/26/08 06:02 PM
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*hugs* flowerforyouYou will see, it will all be alright! I do drivebys. Tell him you have a crazy friend from the states that will castrate him. laughsmile



laughflowerforyou


You think I'm kidding, but I would! I would make sure he had no feeling there anymore!


he deserves twice over, like he did to me frustratedfrustratedfrustrated


What he deserves is life in prison and to become someone's bytch.. A guy named Ralph.