Topic: I have problems starting relationships
Joined Tue 08/28/07
Thanks for your reply. It's frustrating! I've used Craig's List personals frequently to the point that my account(s) have been suspended because I post too much. I don't have any close female friends and I go crazy. I don't know how to make a personal bond or connection with a twenty or thirty-something woman. There have been many days of late where I will just break down and cry.
You sound just like my roommate. He is 30 and talks about wanting to meet girls and doesn't do anything about it. You have legs and a mouth, so use them. Go where girls are, walk up to them, and start talking.
It is not too complicated. They may not like you, but eventually you find some that do. The have Salsa nights where I live where they give Salsa lessons on Sat nights once a month at this Bar. Lots of girls go for lessons, but not lots of guys. Great place to meet girls. Learn to dance, have some drinks, and FreeAppDating.
Joined Mon 01/14/08
I'm a SWM, 30 years old who is lonely with a lot of love and not able to find suitable dating partners. I live in the San Francisco Bay Area and have never been in a LTR. Another issue is, with my age, gender, and hormones, not being in a relationship means I want sex more because the loneliness I experience seems to kick my sex drive into higher gear--without my say. As a result, I can't find lonely, needy women who also want casual sex, while I struggle to find a woman with whom to befriend and eventually develop a relationship with. I'm currently seeing a psychotherapist intern do address these issues, but nothing helps.
well this post has "chick magnate" written all over it, doesnt it...