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Right Now -

-somebody is thinking of you.
-somebody is caring about you.
-somebody misses you
-somebody wants to talk to you.
-somebody wants to be with you.
-somebody hopes you aren't in trouble.
-somebody is thankful for the support you have provided.
-somebody wants to hold your hand.
-somebody hopes everything turns out all right.
-somebody wants you to be happy.
-somebody wants you to find him/her.
-somebody is celebrating your successes.
-somebody wants to give you a gift.
-somebody thinks that you ARE a gift.
-somebody loves you.
-somebody admires your strength.
-somebody is thinking of you and smiling.
-somebody wants to be your shoulder to cry on.

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You can handle whatever life gives you.
You did it yesterday, and the day before.
You've done it all your life, and it has brought you to where you are today.
Somehow, in some way, you have successfully made your way through every challenge, to arrive at this point in life, right here, right now.

Every day for as long as you can remember you've faced challenges, you've solved problems, and you have worked your way through the obstacles that blocked your path.
You have proved to yourself and to the world that you are resourceful, that you are effective, that you can propel yourself to where you want to be.

Nothing yet has stopped you.
You have proven that you can handle the challenges.
Don't stop now.
Have the courage to go for what you truly want.

Sure, the task looks daunting.
Sure, there are hurdles to be overcome.
Yet that's what you're so good at doing.
You've made it here, and you can make it anywhere you want to go.

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Instead of focusing so intently on what you can get, consider what you can let go.
Lighten your load and become more nimble, peaceful and powerful.
Some of the things you so desperately think you need, you do not need at all.
As your needs diminish, your freedom and richness grow.

There's nothing you must have in order to be.
Devote some of your life to simply being, and know the liberation that comes from letting go of yourself.

Ambition, intention and disciplined effort will bring you much in this world.
Always remember, though, that there is more to life than the success the world confers.

When you act out of need you will struggle from a position of weakness.
Rise above the need, and you are free to achieve without limitation.

Remember that fulfillment is not about getting all that you need.
Fulfillment is knowing the freedom to be all that you are.
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Even the most intense experience is only an experience you are having. It is not you, and you are not it.
You are more than your problems, more than your possessions, more than the pains and pleasures. You are more than the frustrations that sometimes feel so overwhelming.

Too often, out of fear, you cling tightly to things that don't really matter. Imagine the freedom that can come from letting go and stepping back.

What if your most agonizing worries no longer had the power to worry you? What if your most burdensome difficulties no longer had the power to trouble you?

Step back from them, and it is all possible. It's not a matter of running away, but of putting the world in perspective.

The real person you are, is not defined or limited by the passing circumstances, no matter how intense they may be. Always remember that you are more.

by: Ralph Marston

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There is someone special in your life who can be a constant source of motivation and encouragement for you. It is someone whom you trust and believe, someone who unquestionably has your best interest at heart. That someone is you.

Every day, you talk to yourself more than any other person talks to you. You have an enormous influence over you own thoughts and actions. The things you tell yourself you accept and believe virtually without question.

What are you saying to yourself every day? Think about it. Is it positive, encouraging, challenging and enriching? Or is it mostly complaining, whining, negative and full of self pity?

You can make a real and powerful difference in the quality of your life by the things you tell yourself from moment to moment. Stop and pay attention to what you're telling yourself. The world around you can often be very negative. That doesn't mean you must follow suit, though. Choose to encourage yourself. Choose to be a positive influence on your own life. What you say to yourself has tremendous power. Make it count.
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